OK. I have been thinking a lot about this subject recently. This is 2015. People lie, cheat, steal and many other things that didn't use to happen. What has changed a lot over the past years is people's self esteem. This world has altered the look of normal people and set expectations so high that there is no way to reach them. Companies are throwing models out there in 'to die for clothing' and 'to die for bodies.' Makeup companies are stating "Just be the natural you" but while you are doing that cake on a layer of makeup or two. Now, makeup is fun. From time to time I wear makeup as well, but makeup has changed from a fun accessory, to girls thinking that they are ugly without it. People should be able to walk around freely wearing whatever they want and acting however they want but that is simply not the reality.
Now dealing with the psychological part. The common thought is to change yourself for someone else to like you. Now, I'm not lying I have done this before but I can promise you that nothing spectacular can come out of something that starts with a lie. It is better to surround yourself with people that love you for who you truly are. It doesn't matter if you're black, white, green or purple people should truly love you not from your appearance, race, sexual orientation or belief systems.
Just be you :)
Delani
Now dealing with the psychological part. The common thought is to change yourself for someone else to like you. Now, I'm not lying I have done this before but I can promise you that nothing spectacular can come out of something that starts with a lie. It is better to surround yourself with people that love you for who you truly are. It doesn't matter if you're black, white, green or purple people should truly love you not from your appearance, race, sexual orientation or belief systems.
Just be you :)
Delani